When to text back?

Hello Ladies and Gentlemen,

This post is about the texting to the one you are dating. The do's and don'ts. There is a lot of confusion out there with bad advice that will leave you alone if we don't fix this. So let's get to it!

I saw his profile, how long should I wait to text him: You shouldn't. Plain and simple. "But I'm old fashion..." Unless you are letting your parents choose who you marry then this is called an excuse. Ladies, wake up quick. There is so much competition out there right now, are you really going to wait for him to start it? At least like his pictures, or show some form of actual interest here. It's not that scary. You'll survive, so just send a message. It doesn't have to be asking him out. You could ask him where the picture of the fish he caught was taken. Ask him how old is his dog. Ask him a question you may have from reading his profile. Didn't read it? Go back and READ it. Stop focusing so much on swiping to see other profiles. Otherwise you'll second guess yourself.

So I like this girl's profile but not sure if I should ask her out with this feminist movement going around: Ask her out. Well, I suppose it depends. If you want a feminine woman who wants your protection then ask her out. If you want a masculine women, then let her do it. Believe it or not, those of us females who want men to be our protectors and lead us into the future will probably not ask you out. Why? She probably has a father who asked her mother out and is the kind of father that has no issues showing you he knows how to protect his family. So she is going to naturally want someone like her father, which means if you don't ask her out, she'll regard you as a weak male. Now if you like those masculine women then asking her out will probably turn her around since she is trying to fill that role. At the end of the day, the worst she can say is no, and there is competition. Another man will be more than happy to ask where you didn't.

So the guy and I are texting now. How often do I text him that shows I'm into him but not needy: Twice a day. Once in the morning and once at night. Give it a few days to see if he starts the conversation during the day. Twice a day shows you are interested compared to most women who will wait for him to talk to them. A relationship takes the equal amount of effort here so put in the effort to set yourself apart.

Do I have to pay for the first date: Um. No. My best advice is to ask to go Dutch. If you must pay then pick a cheap place. Can you say this in a text? Yes and you should. It'll be better than the surprise and will prevent a blow out at a public place.

As a guy how often should I text or start the conversation: Send a text to start a conversation at least once a day and respond her texts. This is if you are actually interested.

How soon should I text her after our date and what to say: Where in the world did this idea come that you need to talk about how successful the date was? Seriously guys keep this simple. "Hey that was fun. How about next weekend I pick you up at 8pm?" Don't dissect the date, especially it's only been your first few. One, if she enjoyed the date then she will still respond to you. Two, asking about the date shows no confidence. So instead just state that it was enjoyable, and then move on to talk about either the next date or something else. This also goes for the ladies too, there is no reason to look into a date like a math word problem from high school. For ladies, just text him that you had fun on the date, or maybe you learned something about him so talk about it. "Hey that was fun! I didn't know you were so good at fishing!" Please do not try to figure out your date otherwise you'll drive yourself nuts with "maybes" and "what ifs".

He/She went from talking to me at least twice a day to now nothing in four days: Move on. Unless they are in the hospital, really sick, someone close to them died, or work has them working 12hr shifts. Otherwise move on. If it gets to a week then you really need to drop their contact. They are playing games and no one likes it no matter gender.

I hope this helps anyone who may need it. Texting can be tough when dating but this should help ease some things out. These are just general and don't describe every relationship.

As always, take hold of your own future before it slips through your hands.

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