When a woman questions you, you've made the right choice

"Don't you think you'll regret not partying while you're young?"

"You really should have a new boyfriend every week."

"Oh marriage. You're a little young aren't you?"

"He's in college, are you sure he hasn't cheated on you?"

"You are so young! You should be experiencing life while you can."

"If you marry him, you can't change your mind later."

"Are you sure he's the one? If you have any doubt, better call it off."

"You should ask him for an open marriage! It brings spice into the relationship!"

"I know he makes money so you can stay home, but he never takes you out! I think you can do better."

"Why do you need to let him know you're going out? Is he controlling you?"

"Why are you doing all the housework? He has two hands."

"I don't know how you do it. Give up your life, youth and fun to be tied down so young."

"You're having another one? I think you can provide more value then just having kids for a man."

"A stay at home mom? What about a career? Don't you want to contribute value to society?"

"Well it's probably best you stay home, I don't think you have the strength to have a career."

"If you experience dating a bit more, you'll have more to offer him later on."

"Suggest to him to take a break so you can go experience new partners. Don't worry, he'll be there when you are ready to settle down."

"I would need someone who is also (insert religion) like me."

"So you got your degree and now you'll never use it? Seems like a waste."

"Don't be like me sweetie, don't settle."

"I thought I'd be happy too, but look at me know. I regret not living my life and so will you."

"She/he doesn't deserve you! You can do so much better."

"I care about you, and I only want you to be happy."

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Do any of the above quotes sound familiar? These are quotes I've heard or women in my life have been told, that strikes at the core. You get an unsettling feeling in your gut as you feel the color drain from your face, unsure how to respond to such pointed opinions. What's worse, most of the time, it is unwarranted advice. Which is why it catches you off guard. Maybe you are having a conversation about the kids or life in general. All of a sudden, one of these quotes come flying from the outfield. Leaves you speechless, and vulnerable. The more you try to justify your choices, the more condescending the looks become.

Men do any of these quotes sound familiar to you? Did this advice given to your girlfriend cause a break up in your relationship? Was any of these quotes used on you? In today's blog I'll be going over a secrete women don't want you to know. A secrete that most women themselves do not understand or realize about themselves. I'm going to help the men out so they can see the warning signs, while also teaching our young women what should have been taught to them.

Women in today's day in age have no idea how to deal with the envious woman. For some reason, young girls are not taught how to deal with women at all. I'm not talking about loyal and kind women. I'm talking about the vindictive, envious, men haters that love to ruin the happiness of others. This used to be taught to all young girls, yet as the decades have gone on, and women take to the work force, it has been left by the wayside. Why? Well in the beginning, it was a small percentage of women in the work force compared to men. Yet as times are changing, men starting their own businesses or following their purpose and distancing themselves from the drama of office jobs, things are different. Now in most offices, you'll find a higher percentage of women working compared to men. Don't believe me? Well, as an educated woman, I always provide proof.

2019 Study from Zippa.com

• 71.8% of all Office Workers are women, while 28.2% are men.

Click on the website which will take you straight to the page.

So what does the higher percentage of women in the office have to do with vindictive vixens?

Women need validation. Some women, when it is not being met at home, will search for it elsewhere. When they can not get it anywhere, they become green little monsters that need to sabotage other women's happiness to feel better about themselves.

Other women will be self conscience about themselves or the choices they've made. Maybe she over heard her man talking with your husband on how few partners you had. Hearing how much both men admired your choice has her angered and questioning her own past choices. So to make herself feel better she interrogates you on if you believe you made the right choice and it leaves you questioning everything. Some women may even suggest how little experience you have to give to your man and how unhappy he must be. This will leave you vulnerable and you may find yourself crying to your man. Or you could even push it aside as it burns in your mind leading to useless fights between you and your man.

Want another scenario?

Your friend is jealous that you are in a relationship and she hits thirty years old this year with no man in sight. She may start telling you that you deserve better because he doesn't do all the cooking. Afterall he has two hands, why can't he cook after a long 16 hour day working to put money in the bank? After a few months of this you start to get agitated with everything he does and your relationship is over. A few months later she has a man and brags to you all the time about how amazing he is while she does everything for him, that you did for your now ex.

Even worse is when the open relationship comes idea comes up. "You should try an open relationship so you both can experience new experiences and then try it together. Only to find out that he has no interest in that and he ends it faster than you can comprehend.

Women like this can be the work environment, an old friend or even family.

So what's the secrete?

Women have a unique ability to not hear when they have no interest in that topic. Goes in one ear and out the other. Not even processed in the brain. Women also have the ability to nod and give correct cues as if they are paying attention. Quite unique.

So what does this have to do with vindictive vixens?

Bluntly speaking, if a woman does not care about the topic, she will not insist or continue it. In fact she will do the exact opposite. Trying to change the subject or bluntly walk away from you. Some will be kind enough to pretend to be paying attention, not wanting to insult you.

If a woman seems to persist in a conversation about your relationship, especially when in a negative light, she is trying to make herself feel better.

If a woman questions you on your relationship, then feel confident in your choice. In fact, most of the time, it is assured hat you've made the right choice. What do I mean?

Example one: She is questioning her choices of so many partners because she hears men admiring you on your few past partners. She is feeling self conscience and wondering if she made the right choice, especially if you are happily married. So she will continue to question you until you break and start to doubt your own choice making her feel better about herself.

Example two: Your friend secretly envies you for the type of man you have because she attracts the bad type of men. (even though those are the ones she goes after) She is also about to hit 30 years old with no man and no future for a family at the moment. She allows the feelings to stir and boil until she ruins your relationship so she's not the only one single. Then when she finds a man, she looks for the type that you had dated because she knows deep down that type of man is exactly who will give her a family. She also brags to you about her relationship to prevent you from having the courage to go find a man so that she can use you to make herself feel better.

Example three: These women are just wicked. They are evil and you should drop them like a broken or used purse. No one who ever cares about you would ever suggest to you to try an open relationship, if you are in a monogenous relationship. Ever! They know it would be the destruction of the relationship but they insist it would work for you. These friends need to be expelled from your life faster than light speed.

So how do you fight against this? By using the other big secrete women never tell. You ignore them. Women can not stand being ignored. Keep answers simple like, "okay." or "That's your opinion".

How do you know it worked? When she persists. She'll suddenly become overly talkative as she tries to force her opinions down your throat. She'll seem to get almost angry or emotional at your non caring attitude. She may even try to guilt trip you.

"You don't trust my opinion?"

Remember, a true friend, would not try to manipulate you. This will be a clear manipulation tactic to gain validation and attention back on her. Ignore it. Or better yet, inform her that she's not a great friend if she can not respect your opinions.

If it's someone from work, smile nicely at her while saying, "I'm so sorry. You must have misunderstood, I was not asking for your opinion." Then walk away.

Ladies, in today's day in age we need to stand up against these vindictive vixens not only to protect our men and our families, but also to protect ourselves. Don't let them destroy your life. Protect it. Remember as a general rule, if a woman is questioning you on your relationship or life choices, rest assure that you probably made the right choice.

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