Stop Friend zoning yourself!

Hello Ladies and Gentlemen,

I never thought I'd have to write about this, but looks like I do. Ever watch those romantic movies where he is her best friend for years. Watching her break her heart over and over with the wrong guy. Then all of a sudden she wakes up one day to see him as the one she wanted all along? Yeah, this doesn't happen in real life. Men, you need to stop putting yourself in the friend zone. Needs to be said and fixed. So today we're going to talk about the worst things you can do to end up or put yourself in the friend zone.

Don't put yourself there: You'd be surprised how many men do this on purpose. Either because they watched way too many movies, or they have been hurt and want to take the casual friend approach to reduce the possible rejection pain. If you ever suggest to a women, "Let's try friends first" she will drop you off her list so fast your head will spin. This is the sign of a male not comfortable with who he is or is scared of rejection. Nothing, and I repeat, nothing can turn a woman off faster than this. No matter if this is a hook up or an attempt at a committed relationship, if you suggest friends first, you'll never get another chance.

No platonic boyfriend: Do not give her the benefits of having a boyfriend without being her boyfriend. Don't be her shoulder to cry on. Don't be ready to start a fight over her. Don't show her the relationship love and support without the boyfriend title. Don't be a kiss ass. No need, just stop.

Do not be always available: Please do not stop what you're doing to run to her needs. You are not her slave. and NOT her boyfriend. Get your own life and something to focus on like a goal no matter financial or career. Let the goals come first and if you have time, then spend time with her if you want.

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Do not let her talk about her ex with you: Put some boundaries down here men. Do not let a woman talk about her past or current relationships with you. Walk away. If you really like her, this will only hurt you. By listening to it, giving advice, you are acting like a friend or brother. A woman will not listen to you talk about your ex with her if she was interested, so same applies here.

Do not wait for her: This is not a movie. She will not magically wake up and fall desperately in love with you. You need to show you are interested in her. Flirt with her. Act quickly. Act like a hunter. Why? If you are interested in her, there will be someone else interested more willing to take the plunge and she'll be gone. Don't hesitate.

Don't accept her "I just want to be friends": Walk away! If you are really into her, fell for her hard why would you be her friend after she rejected you? Maybe years later when you both have someone, but don't torture yourself.

Be confident: Nothing a woman will respect more than confidence in a man. You can put some humor into it as well. If you know you are right about something, make it humorous. Some might call this a smart a**. This doesn't mean be one all the time, but have the confidence to know when you are right and express it.

Make her earn your attention: Don't just give her attention because she seeks it. Make her earn it. Don't be easy. Your time is valuable especially when you have a purpose, so make her earn some of that time.

I hope this helps anyone who may need this. Please men, women follow your lead. If you show weakness or act like she is the center of your world, you will loose any respect she might have had for you.

As always, take hold of your own future.

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