Religion in relationships
- Classical Lady
- Apr 13, 2022
- 5 min read
Hello Ladies and Gentlemen,
If you haven't seen the new arrivals at Classicallady21, check it out! New gifts for mother's day coming up. You should get the gift for mom before you forget and end up looking last minute. For everyone else looking for a good read, welcome. This post will be about religion in relationships. Many are under the impression that having the same faith is the only way a relationship to work. For anyone worried this spells doom for their relationship, you can now relax. Having different religion faiths rarely turn couples to explode. Why? Maturity. Most people have the general respect for other opinions when it comes to spiritual beliefs. If you are still unsure, I have tips for you to keep in mind when dealing with religion so your relationship can still bloom.
Respect
A religion or spiritual belief is a part of who someone is. No one has any right to belittle another based on their beliefs. It's more than an idea, it's a lifestyle, it's hope, sanity, and tranquility for many people. Even those who do not believe in religion have their own scientific tranquility. The biggest of all of this is, after death. It is the biggest question because everyone knows they will eventually loose the war and pass away. These beliefs make the idea of death easier. Destroying one's beliefs can have devastating affects on the mind and soul, eventually changing who the person is into someone else entirely. This is where respect comes in. Having enough respect for your partner to know how important their religion is to them, will make you aware of boundaries you should not cross. No, I'm not saying you can't discuss it. In fact it can be enlightening for both and I always encourage new perspectives. The general idea of respect will prevent you from yelling at your partner or shoving what you think is proof into their face, in order to be correct. Agree to disagree. Discuss without bashing their beliefs.
Become a part of each other's religion
Maybe visit each other's church. Go with them to religious functions, holidays, and invite them to yours. Important ceremonies can be a great bonding experience. Your religion is important to both of you, so take interest and be the support your partner needs during these times. Even if you don't believe in a religion, showing your support will strengthen your bond. It's easy to run away from situations that seem difficult. It takes strength to take a step away from your ideas to support another in theirs. If your partner is not religious, then join them in their activities that surrounds that belief. You can not expect them to respect yours, if you do not respect theirs.
Tolerance
Your partner will need to learn about your religion. Don't treat them like a child, instead like an adult. The fact they want to learn and understand shows you not only their love for you, but their open mind to other perspectives. So have some patience as they learn and adapt while allowing them time for their beliefs as well. Some people may react well to cultural differences and holidays before they can adjust to more in depth conversations. You also need to be patient when learning their religion. Religion is not something you learn once and know all. It takes time.
Communication
If you read my other posts then you've heard all about communication. It is essential to any successful relationship. Talking about religious differences ahead of time will not only show you respect the one you are dating, but you also have the maturity to make sure they are able to be open minded as you will be. Not everyone can and it's better to know sooner than later. Communication also goes deeper into the relationship. Being able to communicate when you start to have doubts about your religion with your partner may help make your belief stronger. Talking it out as they remind you why you believe in the religion in the first place.
Stand by them in strength
Religion is one of the most debated among social topics. Sometimes strength is needed to be able to walk away from these topics unscathed. Family, friends or strangers can easily get under the skin when it comes to religion to intact a negative response. Being there for them, will help them stay calm and not stoop to the others' level. Remember that you are stronger as a team, even with different religions.
Don't let anyone else tell you that your relationship is doomed
Misery loves company. Time to stand strong against others who will try to tell you that it is a waste of time. Just because they are too weak to be able to do it, doesn't mean you are. Stay strong to your morals, and principals. If others tell you that the different religion won't work out, know this is a sure sign that they don't care about you. If someone really cares, they will help you work it out, and support you. Let misery wallow in their own fears and darkness. Stand strong and learn to see past the fake smiles to know you can trust and don't let anyone push themselves in where they don't belong. Let their voices become a whisper and then blow away with no effect. Standing strong together will prevent this. What s important to your partner should be important to you because of it's importance to them. The same in reverse. So when you see your partner start to get tied up in a messy debate, bring them strength and remind them it's not the end.
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