More questions men have for women

Hello Ladies and Gentlemen,

My blog post about questions men had for women did really well so I decided to do another one. I read an article from Thought Catalog and thought I'd give my take on some of these questions. Link below and enjoy!

After thousands of years, why haven’t you realized that we don’t pick up on subtle hints?: You all will still ask this thousands of years later. This is something that is not taught all the time to our young females so sometimes it takes a few relationships to figure it out. Some women never figure this out. Generally speaking, it's when women don't want to seem as materialistic, nagging, or needy. So they will drop hints hoping you suddenly picked up on mind reading. Good news? It's not just to you. Women do it to women too. We also are not mind readers, especially when they want us to take them away from someone but continue to act flirty towards said person.

Are you seriously expecting an honest reply to “does this make me look fat?

No. I covered this in the last blog too but most women I know don't do this. Unless we want an answer, we won't ask. The women who do are probably looking for validation, or won't even hear your response. What to do? Just be honest. Or at least ask her first if she wants an honest answer. Then she'll still have a chance to change her mind. If she says yes, then be honest. I know every man is saying not to do this. Just do it. If she really flips on you for being honest, it might be time to leave.

Were you all born with perfect penmanship?

Umm, no? I've met women who have horrible writing. All depends on the amount of practice.

Do your menstrual cycles really attract bears??

Yes. That's why you can't take us out in the middle of the woods. Okay on a serious note, NO.

This is just some stupid rumor from 1967. Not true. Please don't spread this.

Why can’t you decide where you want to eat? Too many choices? You like all dishes known to man? You can’t tell the difference? TELL ME!!!!!!!

The only time I say "I don't know", or "I don't care" is when I don't care. There will be something I can eat there no matter where you choose. She could be testing you, or wants you to choose. So if this is common for her, just stop asking. She'll either change or complain. If she complains just leave. A place to eat is not something to start a fight over.

What do you store in your handbags? Seriously, there seems to be an item for every occasion.

There most likely is. Really depends on the woman. Why not ask her? She may end up just dumping the whole bag to show you and then realize she has stuff in there she doesn't need. In my bag, as a mom, I have keys, diapers, extra clothes for kids, sewing needles, thread, first aid stuff, snacks, Chapstick, scissors, wallet, and other stuff.

Why do you pepper spray me so often?

............. Um. You may want to look into how you are acting or being perceived. Seriously, because some women have bear spray instead of pepper spray and you don't want to be sprayed with that. Other than that I really have no answer. Unless she's crazy.

How offended would you be if someone called your eyebrows ugly?

Not at all. I'm not trying to impress you. Oh you mean other women. Depends if she really works hard at her eyebrows.

Can you please also take charge in a relationship? I (as a guy) don’t want to be responsible for every single thing that happens between us

Depends on what you mean here. As in she lets you make all the decisions? Most healthy relationships the two take turns taking charge. Or at the least they communicate major decisions together. If you mean you are done being a leader though, then you need to start evaluating the type of women you are dating. Try dating women who will take charge. See if that's what you actually want or you just don't want an overly indecisive woman.

What’s with all the rage over leaving the toilet seat up? Would you rather we pee on it?

I don't have an issue as long as you don't miss and then not clean it up. Some women are lazy in the fact they just don't check to see if it's up or not. Others want to control every part of your life. Just don't let your bathroom look like the men's public bathroom and you should be fine. Although if you learn to put the seat down every time, with a new relationship, you'll get brownie points. She won't say anything, but she will notice.

Do you want us to fight a guy if he’s getting up in your face or do we just leave it because you can take care of yourself?

Okay so I know this can be confusing and it is not the men's fault that it is. Protection is key for a guy. It is natural for us to want a man to protect us. This also depends on the situation. If it's your girlfriend, yes push her behind you and stand up straight without budging. Learn some self defense skills before trying this though. A random girl on the street. Depends on you. Just realize just because you save her doesn't mean she'll be grateful. If you do stand up for your girlfriend, and she yells at you then leave. You are protecting her. If she doesn't want that protection then you won't work out. Especially if it's as ingrained into your soul to protect as it usually is. Just walk away and find a woman who wants your protection.

Do you really find attractive guys “cute and romantic” when an ugly one doing the same thing is “creepy,” or is this just a running joke?

Hard to answer. First off, you never want a woman to refer to you as cute. Usually a bad sign. At least with adult women. They'll say, "He attractive." or "He looks good" or even the "He's my kind of sexy" Next the word "Ugly" really depends on the person, and if it's being done to them or someone else. So if a guy is giving flowers to a girl friend and another woman sees then it's "Sweet". At the same time, if a man who a woman does not find attractive does it to her, then it can be seen as creepy. Advice? If she says no, walk away. Don't keep trying to get her to go out with you.

I’ve spent a long time studying women and how they tic both sexually and romantically. I think I’ve learned a lot but one thing I’ve never been privy to is what girls talk to each other about when talking about guys. I’ve been told it gets rather detailed.

Yeah, your "locker room" talk has nothing on us women. It can get.... detailed. Generally why some of us hate going to locker rooms.

Why do you wear such provocative clothing but complain about creepy people checking you out.

Just like the author, I actually hate it when women do this. Normally women are just looking for validation and don't seem to understand that they can't choose who they get it from. They also could just be complaining because they have nothing else better to do. Or want you to do something about it. I don't do this.

When you look at me a bunch of times but never when I look back, what does that mean exactly? Am I a freaky fascinating subject to talk about with your girlfriends later? Or is my shirt on backwards or something? Or are you just checking me out, and if so, why do you look away like you’re totally not interested when I look your way?

She's checking you out or trying to get your attention. If it's for attention, either good or bad. Don't play along. Just ignore her.

Why is it that guys have to pretend not to be interested in you for you to like them? In my experience the less interest you show to a girl the more she wants you. It doesn’t make sense to me, I like you ok, why do I have to pretend that I don’t?

This very much true, sadly. She wants to feel like she's won something, She doesn't want something easy to attain that she thinks other women could also easily get. Don't ask me why, but I have seen girls fall hard for the men who show them no attention. These aren't the type of women you want. As soon as you move on they will cling to you. Don't let them. Move on.

Just because we find a member of the opposite sex attractive, doesn’t mean we’d have sex with them if we had the chance. Why does it set a trigger off in your head?

Jealousy, and low self esteem. Have you ever seen a woman compliment another woman's chest or butt? We do, and this shows confidence in accepting the fact there are better looking people than us.

When should we give up on chasing you?

The first time you are rejected. Just move on. Don't chase them if they are not showing their interest. Waste of time.

How do you feel about guys working in a workplace that’s dangerous? I’ll be working as personal protection (bodyguard) soon enough and was curious what the opinions on working these types of jobs would be.

Good for you! Seriously! As far as the dating market goes, you'll get a lot of approving looks because women love being protected.

Serious question: Why don’t you lift? Contrary to popular attitudes, women can become much stronger than most men, and strong is not an unattractive quality.

I can lift all three of my children up. Other than that, I do not go out of my way to lift. Other women do. Really depends. I prefer to work out other parts of my body that do not get as much of a work out every day.

As always, take hold of your own future.

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https://thoughtcatalog.com/nikita-bee/2014/07/33-questions-men-have-always-wanted-to-ask-women-answered/