How to break up in 2021

Hello Ladies and Gentlemen,

Today's day in age there are now aps that help you break up with someone. "Really? What's the names?" Hold on, I am not here to give you the easy way out. First, it's a coward's way out. Two, it costs money. So instead let's look at the must do's when you are looking at a way to break up with someone.

Always do it in person if possible: I know, it's so easy to send a text and then block them. Well if you do it all the time, at least you aren't ghosting them. This is still not the right way. If you have been together for a few months, even if it ended on a bad note, ending it in person is more respectable on both ends. This goes for you too, Ladies. It may seem scary and worrisome but if you respected the person even a bit, then at least meet them face to face and end it properly.

Don't make a scene: Keep a level head. I don't care what she/he did to you. Getting emotionally will not only prolong this whole ordeal, but it can easily escalate to violence on either side. It'll be easier if you keep a level head and act logically. No one needs to go to jail here.

Do not try to make the other feel better: You are breaking up for a reason. Do not try make the other feel better, or make it easier. Doesn't mean cut them down or try to twist a knife in their soul, but don't console them. No hugs, no "I'm sorry" just stay level headed and don't console them. This will help keep it shorter as well.

Don't sleep with them: Resist this. Read above paragraph. By not distancing yourself, you will end up sleeping together during a break up, and have to do it all over again. Or worse you end up back into the relationship and back down the rabbit hole.

Cut contact: After you leave and get in the car, block numbers, block social media and don't answer any friends who say "so and so wants to talk to you". Cut contact, at least for a few months to a year. Give it the time to heal on their end and give yourself the space to prevent the possible getting back together stage the other will go through.

Make sure your stuff and their stuff is returned: This is again if you were spending sufficient amount of time at the other's place or you happen to be living together for a short time. Make sure everything is organized and returned so the breakup is a bit easier and quicker to get over. No surprise reminders of your time together or having to find a way to get her necklace back to her. If you were sharing finances, make sure that is figured out as logically as you can.

They are crazy: Um, this is a unique situation. If they are crazy, make sure you have family or friends standing by. Don't endanger your life, so maybe tell them outside where you have plenty of room to run and they can't grab a knife. Stay logical and calm and stay alert. Again have someone standing by in case things go south. And next time, don't date crazy. This goes for men and women.

This is advice for those in dating status, not married, not been together for years as they'll be less likely to use aps to break up since there will be more involved, like home, kids and so forth. Hope this helps or entertains you. As always, take hold of your own future.

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